It is the relationships around a child that shape the quality of their life.
Together we navigate the relationships around your child — toward healthy emotional development, built on safety, meaning, and trust.

Individual Guidance
Children learn from who we are — from whether our words, actions, and presence align. Long before they understand what we say, they feel what lives within us.
When you create space for what lives within you — feelings, patterns, parts that want to be heard — you show your child, through how you live, that they're allowed to do the same.
In a generation with endless ways to look outward, staying in relationship with yourself is what lets you authentically meet your child.

Heilpädagogische Child Accompaniment
Much of what shapes us happens before we have words for it, stored in the body — in sensation, in rhythm. This is why words alone often can't reach what a young child needs to process and express."Through art, music, movement, and exploration — an embodied sense of confidence grows from the inside: the felt experience of creating, and of being safe.Heilpädagogik isn't about focusing on deficits — it's about what's already sustaining the child's inner world.

Couples and Parents Guidance
Every relationship lives in a dance of closeness and autonomy — a tension between where you've come from and who you're still becoming together.By looking at the patterns beneath recurring conflicts, reshaping how you communicate, and meeting crises with curiosity and openness, you build a relationship that can hold you through growth, not just survive it.Your child learns through you how to participate in relationships, what emotional responsibility looks like, and what repair makes possible.
It's not what conflicts are about. It's what they are for.

Professionals Guidance
Leading a kindergarten, or working with children and families day to day, is proof of real courage — where your knowledge, experience, and motivation meet a system with real strengths, but also real limits. That's exactly why we return to the heart of our work: the relationships that sustain it.Reflect. Reorient. What does your team need right now to work with quality — and what do you notice in the room?You might be the reason your team keeps believing, or a child's chance of a day that feels safe. Reconnecting is what gives you agency — and that's the most caring thing you can do for the people who count on you.
What do we work on?
"What we ourselves have not been given, we cannot pass on to our children, who come to us for guidance."
- Gabor Maté (physician and trauma expert)
Where do we start?
You contact me
Send me a short note on what brings you to me and when you'd be free for a 20-minute call.
20-min. Free Call
In a free call we can have an exchange to get an idea of who we are.
We can start
If it feels right, we begin with a clarification session.
Trust takes time. I follow your pace — session by session, as deep as needed.
The First Step
Clarifying the focus
1 x 60 min.
We look at your situation together and find a shared focus — the starting point for what comes next.
€120Institutions — Upon Request
Your process
If you're working toward something specific, planned sessions give you a clear structure.
If you'd rather have flexible guidance for whatever comes up, Ongoing Companionship might be the better fit.
5-Session Process
5 x 90 min.
Sessions are booked one at a time — at the end of each session — with 1–2 weeks between appointments depending on what fits your process.
Guidance 1:1 — €810Couples / Parents — €990Institutions — Upon Request
10-session Process
10 x 90 min.
Sessions are booked one at a time — at the end of each session — with 1–2 weeks between appointments depending on what fits your process.
Guidance 1:1 — €1.530Couples / Parents — €1.870Institutions — Upon Request
Ongoing Companionship
Minimum 15 x 60 min.
6-month Guidance
A steady companion for whatever is still unfolding — whenever a situation arises. Phone or video session the same day, or the soonest time that works for both of us.
Guidance 1:1 — €140/hourInstitutions (for Professionals) — Upon Request
Single sessions available on request — €180 (Guidance 1:1) · €220 (Couples/Parents)
Workshops — Upon Request
"Recovery becomes possible through safety, self-compassion, and reparative connection to others."
— in the spirit of Janina Fisher, trauma psychologist
Voices from Practice
★★★★★
"I felt truly taken seriously and supported with appreciation and respect. I found it easy to openly address even difficult situations, as she listened attentively and created an atmosphere of trust. I especially appreciated her ability to open up new perspectives on challenging situations. I was able to organize my thoughts more clearly and recognize resources and possible ways of taking action that I had not considered before."
Professional Support, German
★★★★★
"I was afraid to talk about personal topics. However, everything felt natural. The sessions helped organise the flow of my thoughts. Before, my mind often felt chaotic, and I would overlook or ignore important thoughts. Now, everything seems much clearer. Couples Counselling helped my partner and I discuss topics we had been avoiding for months. It created a safe space where we could openly express ourselves, better understand each other's perspectives, and improve our communication."
Couples Support, English
★★★★★
"Keila is one of those rare people with whom you grow both professionally and personally.
I'm especially impressed by her ability to analyze complex situations with real nuance and bring valuable insights from her systemic perspective — insights that are often overlooked — as well as her patience, her appreciative attitude, and her extraordinary ability to remain impartial even in challenging situations. She meets people with genuine openness and combines professional expertise with an authentic, warm manner.
Every professional exchange with her broadens your own perspective and inspires you to keep developing your own work."
Professional Support, German
★★★★★
"I'm so grateful for her. She helps me reconnect with myself and better understand what's really going on in my head and my heart. She creates such a safe, supportive space that I always leave with more clarity, a fresh perspective, and a deeper understanding of myself. Her support has truly made a difference in my life."
Individual Support, Spanish
★★★★★
"Keila knows very well how to ask the right questions at the right moments, allowing topics to be explored not only on the surface but at their core. She helps people gain new perspectives and, above all, not lose their self-love — or to rediscover it."
Individual Support, German
★★★★★
"My conversations with Keila helped me a great deal. Her shift in perspective between my children and me helped me understand them better. She gave me valuable tips I could actually put into practice."
Individual Support, German
FAQ
What is Systemic Relational Counseling, and when can it help?
Systemic Relational Counseling looks at you within the context of your relationships and lived circumstances, rather than in isolation — because when one person shifts, the whole dynamic often shifts with them. It can help with a difficult transition, a stuck relationship, a repeating pattern, or simply wanting more clarity.You are the expert of your own life; my role is to create the safety for you to move, question, and grow.
What does hybrid mean?
Hybrid means we combine formats flexibly around what the work actually needs.In person — every session with the child (after the Clarification Session) and for adults at least our first Session.Per Video— a good option for individual or couple sessions once we've met, and for Professional Ongoing Companionship and Institutional Support from the start.By phone — well suited to Private Ongoing Companionship, for reaching out as situations arise.
What happens in the Clarification Session?
Together, we look at your situation, what's bringing you here, and what's actually at stake — and from that, a shared focus emerges. This focus becomes the foundation for whichever path fits best: a Session Process, or Ongoing Companionship.For children, this first conversation takes place with the parent(s) only — your child isn't present. From there, we shape how to involve your child directly, in a way that fits them.
How does booking work with Ongoing Companionship?
Your 6-month contract includes a guaranteed minimum number of sessions. Rather than a fixed schedule, you reach out and book whenever a situation arises — I'll respond the same day, and we'll find the soonest time that works for both of us.For Institutions, this means Professionals can reach out during their non-client time — for example, while preparing materials or writing reports — booking a session for the same day or the soonest availability as cases and situations come up.
How does a session with a child actually work?
Sessions take place in your child's own familiar environment — at home or in their kindergarten.We work through three lenses: understanding your child, what's behind their behavior, and how to meaningfully support them — including observing your child within their group and, where helpful, involving their closest peers directly. This is complemented by parent conversations aimed at finding shared solutions, and creative, body-oriented approaches tailored to what your child needs — art, music, movement, breathing, or mindfulness — alongside sessions exploring themes like emotions.Everything observed stays confidential, and the whole process is coordinated closely with you and, where relevant, the child's kindergarten.
Who can book this?
This work is for anyone navigating relationships, transitions, or challenges — in their own life or professional role.
Private clients can book directly: -Individuals working through a personal transition, challenge, or period of change. -Couples and co-parents navigating conflict, separation, or building a new way of relating. -Families with young children (0–6) looking for support in the early yearsInstitutions and Träger can book in two ways: -Session Processes, on behalf of families they support (e.g. under Eingliederungshilfe) — sessions take place directly with the family. -Ongoing Companionship, exclusively for their own Fachkräfte (e.g. Erzieher) — reflective support your team can reach whenever a case calls for it.
Over 10 years of experience supporting multilingual and intercultural relationships in Peru, China and Germany (English, Spanish, Chinese, Portuguese, German)
Over 10 years of experience in music, art, and somatic expression
Diploma in Translation & Interpreting — Universidad del Pacífico (Lima)
B.A. in Holistic Education — Alanus University of Arts and Social Sciences
Further training in couples and systemic counseling — BTB Institute for Therapeutic Professions
Member of the Professional Association for Special Education (BHP) e.V.
Member of the German Society for Health Promotion and Prevention e.V.
Focus areas: Multicultural & intercultural relationships · Multilingual (DE · ES · EN · PT) · Human development & self-actualisation · Trauma-informed & resource-oriented · Holistic child accompaniment · Online & hybrid
IMPRESSUM
Keila Ayala Vasquez
Freiberufliche Heilpädagogin, Systemische und PaarberaterinLauerbachgasse 1
67346 SpeyerE-Mail: [email protected]
Telefon: +49 17680458518
Steuernummer: 24 / 004 / 43782
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